WO Magazine Fall 2013 | Page 28

MOTIVATION Lifestyle EIGHT WAYS TO REKINDLE MOTIVATION 1 LOWER YOUR EXPECTATIONS A LITTLE : Nobody loves a bully – particularly if you’re bullying yourself! Setting goals that are unreasonable and therefore, likely unattainable, is only going to make life miserable. Don’t tell yourself you’ll be a failure if you don’t work out for two hours every day if that means scrunching the rest of your schedule and making you feel guilty about the work and family responsibilities you’re ignoring. Set a workout regimen that really works out – for you! FOCUS ON YOUR FEET : Comfy, supportive, high performance workout shoes will make your feet feel good – and feeling good is half the exercise battle. 3 BET ON BRIBERY : Use bribery and payoffs lavishly. After all, who wants to do something for nothing? Even if you’re the one paying yourself off, you’ll still feel rewarded…so, if you’re having trouble getting out the door for your morning workout, offer a reward. If you do it every weekday, you can have Saturday and Sunday mornings to loll in bed…or you can watch a whole evening of mind-bendingly dumb reality television shows that you secretly love…or you can skip cooking one night a week and bring home a healthy meal, already prepared. 26 | whiteoaksclub.com | fall 2013 FIND A FRIEND : Misery likes company so if you hate heading out that door when the wind is wild and wooly, knowing that your exercise buddies are doing the same will make it happen. You’d never want to be the one lowlife who doesn’t show up and lets everyone in the group down, would you?