The State Bar Association of North Dakota Fall 2013 Gavel Magazine | Page 18

FAMILY LAW SECTION QUIZ, continued and Bill start a custody proceeding to gain custody of Dick and Harry. Do Marge and Bill have any chance of prevailing in this proceeding? a. No, because they have no standing to bring such a proceeding. b. No, because Denise, Dick and Harry’s mother, has a constitutional right to the custody and companionship of her children. c. Yes, because Dick and Harry are teenagers and they want to live with Marge and Bill instead of with their mother. d. Yes, but only if the court finds that exceptional circumstances exist such that Marge and Bill must be awarded primary residential responsibility for Dick and Harry to prevent serious harm or detriment to them. ANSWER: d. N.D.C.C. § 14-09-29, subd. 1 provides in relevant part that “[a] court issuing an order that deals with parenting rights and responsibilities of a child entered under this chapter shall award the parental rights and responsibilities concerning the child to a person, agency, organization, or institution as will, in the opinion of the court, promote the best interest and welfare of the child.” The North Dakota Supreme Court has stated, however, that “parents have a paramount and constitutional right to the custody and companionship of their children superior to that of any other person” and that custody may be awarded to a third party only in exceptional circumstances in order to prevent serious harm or detriment to a child.” The Court has further noted that in each case in which it has upheld a third party custody placement, the child had developed “a psychological parent relationship with the third party.” Edwards v. Edwards, 2010 ND 2, ¶ 8, 777 N.W.2d 606, quoting Hamers v. Guttormson, 2000 ND 93, 610 N.W.2d 758. 10. Mary and John married, had two daughters, Jill and Joni, and then divorced. Mary has residential responsibility for Jill and Joni. John visits Jill and Joni sporadi- 16 cally and pays child support sporadically. He has significant child support arrears. Three years ago, Mary married Jeff, who gets along very well with Jill and Joni. Jeff now wants to adopt Jill and Joni, who are 8 and 9 years old. John has indicated that he will consent to his parental rights being terminated so that Jeff can adopt Jill and Joni. Which of the following statements is true? a. Jeff cannot adopt Jill and Joni because John still owes back child support. b. If Jeff adopts Jill and Joni, John won’t have to pay child support after the adoption but will still be responsible for his child support arrears, unless Mary and any assignee of Mary’s consent in writing to waive the past due support and the court approves the agreement. c. If Jeff adopts Jill and Joni, John will not have to pay future child support and his arrears will be forgiven. d. If Jeff adopts Jill and Joni, John will still be responsible for future child support and his child support arrears. ANSWER: b. Under N.D.C.C. §14-0908.21, a termination of parental rights terminates that parent’s duty to support the child once the child is adopted, but does not relieve the parent of the duty to pay any unpaid child support. N.D.C.C. §14-0909.32 provides in relevant part that “[a] n agreement purporting to waive pastdue child support is void and may not be enforced unless the child support oblige and any assignee of the obligee have consented to the agreement in writing and the agreement has been approved by a court of competent jurisdiction.” 11. In number 3 above, which individuals must consent to Jeff adopting Jill and Joni? a. Only John b. Only Mary c. John and Mary d. John, Mary, Jill, and Joni ANSWER: c. N.D.C.C. § 14-15-05 provides that the mother and father of the minor child to be adopted must consent and that the minor child must consent if more than ten years of age, unless the court dispenses with the minor child’s consent. Jill and Joni do not have to consent because they are not more than ten years of age. 12. Dick and Jane were high school sweethearts. Jane became pregnant and during the summer between her junior and senior year of high school gave birth to a boy. Dick, who was 17 years old, signed a Recognition of Parentage shortly before the baby’s birth and attended the baby’s birth. Upon the baby’s birth, the hospital where the baby was born immediately filed the Recognition of Parentage with the North Dakota Department of Health. The baby lived with Jane and her parents until Jane graduated from high school, at which time she moved out of her parents’ home, got her own apartment, and applied for services at Regional Child Support, naming Dick as the baby’s father. Dick has started to wonder if his son is really his child since both he and Jane have dark hair and brown eyes and the baby has red hair and green eyes, just like Dick’s best friend Jake. Dick confronts Jake who acknowledges that he had sexual relations with Jane approximately 9 months before the baby was born. Dick wants to rescind his acknowledgment of paternity and comes to you for advice. What do you tell him? a. The acknowledgment of paternity is invalid since Dick was only 17 when he signed it. b. The acknowledgment of paternity is invalid since Dick signed it before the baby was born. c. Dick cannot rescind the Acknowledgment of Paternity because it has been more than sixty days since its effective