The best is to fall in love with your Self. Self means your spirit. It is
a love which is divine, a love which is nourishing, a love that looks
after you. But we don’t know how to look after ourselves. We do
not know how to love ourselves.
We love this person, we love that person, but what about
yourself? They think it is selfishness – no, not at all. To know the
Self is love. If you know the Self, you will know love. You will fall
into the ocean of that love.
Just watch yourself. It is very simple to introspect. “Do I have love
within me fully?” Partly it is love, partly it is not.
Love can be very much bounded like the way we love our country.
It is so with everyone. You love your country. Also you love your
parents. You love anybody. But it is a limited love. It is a bounded
love. Love should just be open. Then you will see where you stand
as far as your country is concerned, as far as your relationships
are concerned. You will know everything.