Potential Magazine Winter 2016 | Page 74

game on recruitment If you’re spending more money on their sports than you are putting in their college fund, then your priorities are out of whack. ­—Dave Ramsey Are Kids’ Sports an Investment for College? By Dave Ramsey Any good parent will tell you he or she wants the best for their kids. It’s just a normal emotion that comes with being a parent. When it comes to sports, though, sometimes our parenting instincts get a little carried away. What starts as “wanting the best for our kids” turns into placing a high amount of pressure on our kids to be better than all the other kids. We do everything we can to make sure our kids are the absolute best. We’ll spend thousands of dollars on equipment, travel team fees and personal coaches. Why? Sure, we want our kids to be the best they can be. But, if we’re honest, we’re also thinking of all the future possibilities—a full athletic scholarship in college and (dare we dream?) a professional sports career making millions of dollars. TRUTH IN THE NUMBERS We think, just maybe, if we spend enough money and push our son hard enough, he just might become the next LeBron James. But let’s step back a second and look at college and professional sports from a bigger picture. • Only 2% of high school athletes are awarded sports scholarships at NCAA schools. • Guaranteed “full-ride” scholarships are the exception, not the rule. Plus, only six sports offer them: football, men’s and women’s basketball, volleyball, tennis and women’s gymnastics. (Other sports offer “equivalency scholarships,” in which coaches have the option to divide up all scholarship money however they see fit. Most result in partial scholarships, but there are exceptions.) • Most athletes have “partial scholarships” that only cover a portion of tuition. • Of the athletes skilled enough to play in college, anywhere from 1% (basketball) to 9% (baseball) will have enough game to play professionally. • CNBC says you have a better chance of being admitted to Harvard, Yale, Princeton or Stanford than receiving an athletic scholarship in a major sport. 42 | Winter 2016 www.potentialmagazine.com YOU MAY BE SAYING, “THAT’S GREAT, BUT MY CHILD IS THE EXCEPTION.” Well, maybe. But odds are, your kid won’t get an athletic scholarship. And the odds are incredibly stacked against your kid— in that Lloyd Christmas “you’re telling me there’s a chance?” kind of way—when it comes to playing professional sports. Now before you call us a Debbie Downer, remember that there’s nothing wrong with dreaming. Yes, it’s incredibly difficult to get a college scholarship. And, yes, it’s insanely difficult to play professional sports. But it does happen. All you need to do is turn on your television to realize that. We just want you to be reasonable in how you approach your kids playing sports. If you’re spending more money on their sports than you are putting in their college fund, then your priorities are out of whack. What if half of the money you put toward kids’ sports was going to a college fund instead? That’s your “scholarship” right there!