Potential Magazine Summer 2016 | Page 61

DO S & DON’T S DO RESOLVE CONFLICTS WITHOUT BEING DO CLEAN UP AFTER YOURSELF. Everyone talks about this because it’s true. Be respectful of yourself and your roommate and do your part to keep your space sanitary. DON’T BE RUDE. Noise pollution is real. If your roommate is asleep, don’t blare music or come crashing into the room at 2 a.m. Also, don’t force your roommate to go through an obstacle course of your clothes on the floor. DO WEAR CLOTHES. Please, for the love of all that is good, always be clothed. DON’T BE IN YOUR ROOM ALL THE TIME. Aside from the difficulties that would bring in trying to make friends, your roommate might resent you for depriving them of precious alone time. We all need some space every once in a while. Do yourself and your roommate a favor and leave the room for a bit. DO BE CONSIDERATE. If you’re going to have friends over late, let the roomie know ahead of time. If you’re not sure how they’ll like something, ask about it. Better to ask first and know for sure than to do it without permission and endure the wrath. PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE. We’re all human. We make mistakes and disagreements happen. It’s better to talk to your roommate about what they’re doing that bothers you so that it can be fixed. Coming up with a compromise is a good way to help keep conflicts under control. DON’T BE A FREELOADER. Your roommate is not your mom. Don’t expect rides or handouts from them constantly. Also, don’t let your roommate mooch off of you. Create boundaries that are clear to both of you so that no one is taken advantage of. DON’T EAT. THEIR. FOOD. Just trust me. DO RELAX. Things will not always go the way you want them to and that’s okay. Part of the college experience is learning how to deal with multiple situations and people. Finding your healthy balance between totally chill and completely stressed will help you in every area o