Potential Magazine Summer 2016 | Page 60

(AN D BE! ) HOW TO FIND A GOOD ROOMATE BY ASHLEY SHERLOCK Finding your first college roommate can be a breeze or a full on hurricane of anxiety. To help save your emotions and your sanity, here is a list of things to consider on your quest for finding The One. TALK AHEAD OF TIME. START THE SEARCH EARLY. The sooner you start looking, the sooner you’ll find someone. ASK ABOUT POTENTIAL ROOMIE’S BEDTIME AND PREFERRED ROOM TEMPERATURE. Being an early bird living with a night owl or the other way around can work, but it can also be sleep depriving. Being comfortable in your own living space is just as important as bedtimes. If you prefer to bring the frozen tundra indoors, you may want to open your search to Eskimos. ASK ABOUT INTERESTS AND INVOLVEMENT. I’m not saying that if you watch The Office and they prefer Parks and Recreation you should cancel the deal (because they are both the best). But if you can’t stand the music they’re inevitably going to play while getting ready in the morning, or if Greek life isn’t your cup of tea like it is theirs, you may want to continue the search. 28 | Summer 2016 My first roommate and I found each other on Facebook and began getting to know each other to better prepare ourselves for move-in day. Getting acquainted and comfortable ahead of time made the first week easier. DO NOT HAVE HIGH EXPECTATIONS. This is only to take some of the pressure and stress off of both of you during a naturally chaotic time. Fortunately, if this person still isn’t everything you dreamed, most schools will let you switch roommates at the end of the semester. If you’re like me when I was a freshman, you’re not used to having someone in your fortress of solitude every day and night. Roommate life is new and you may not be sure how it works or what the protocol is for being a good one. Fear not, for I have also assembled a list of roommate dos and don’ts! www.potentialmagazine.com