dad has a life of his own and
my only sibling, a brother, is
married and lives two states
away. Bottom line — I’ve been
a loner, and not always by
choice. I just never found a
place to fit in.
While attending the US Open
Pickleball Championships in
Naples, Florida, I met dozens
of people from all across the
United States who have also
found a heartfelt love for this
game we’re addicted to.
I’m certainly not the greatest
player, and take the court each
time with having fun as my
only real intention. I’ll laugh at
myself if I make a dumb play or
be the first to congratulate an
opponent who kicks my butt.
Winning has never mattered,
but being part of a community has.
One thing pickleball players all seem to have in common —
we are friendly. We know that people often laugh when they
hear that we play a sport that sounds ridiculous, and even
looks like some sort of circus event at first glance. And how
many times have we had to hear someone ask us why it’s called
“pickleball”?
There’s a certain bond all of us have because we’ve all had the
same conversations with friends and family who have never
heard of it. We’ve all seen the eye rolls from acquaintances
who have no intention of accepting this mix of ping-pong and
tennis as a legit sport. Even as complete strangers, because of
our interest and similar experiences, we are a real family and a
welcoming one at that.
Playing pickleball several nights a week in my hometown
has been one of the biggest
blessings in my life. For the first
time in a long time, I feel part
of something. I have something
to look forward to and, quite
honestly, it cured what could
simply be called depression. I feel
healthier, I can see a difference
in my professional life, and I am
genuinely happy — for the first
time in years.
I’m hopeful that as a lover
of pickleball — no matter how
skilled you may be — you’ll
continue to welcome new players,
both good and bad, with open
arms. Be kind, embrace them,
teach them and make them feel
welcome, at tournaments or on
your own local courts.
You could very well be saving
their life. •
JUNE 2016 |
MAGAZINE
43