More to Death Edition3 2014 | Page 75

What do your family think and how will you cope with the sadness you will undoubtedly meet? A tradition of dignity, respect & choice “I have been through quite a lot in life and my experience of bereavement has taught me that it is not a permanent state. My family? Well, a mixed reaction, some wonder why I would want to live next to a field of dead bodies!” On the North Norfolk coast retired barrister David Oliver has gained planning but is yet to discharge all the planners' conditions. Delay due partly because his site, unusually for a new green burial ground, is heavily wooded. “I have to agree a revised woodland management plan and finish some routine thinning” he tells me. What made you think of doing this David? “It was a fellow committee member on the board at Cromer Hospital that asked me one evening whether I owned the woodland and would consider opening a natural burial ground.” “My wife hates the idea but I think she will come round! It is a splendid woodland, part of the Norfolk coast Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty. I think families will find a wonderful sense of tranquillity within it. Most people think it is a good idea and I have had a lot of local support” So, contrary to the worrying BBC reports back in October, the UK is not running out of burial space, it is just that councils are running out of burdensome conventional space. The Natural Burial Grounds are beautiful and spacious. If you don't know where your local ones are, check out the list on the NDC website. Two things to remember Not all sites who describe themselves as ‘woodland burial sites’ are environmentally careful. They can usually be identified by a lack of terms and conditions appertaining to acceptable coffins, non-embalming and low impact land management etc. Here is a link to our downloadable PDF ‘Questions to ask a woodland burial site.’ Remember, natural burial grounds are as different as their managers and owners, they offer varying services and facilities. They are lovely places run by caring people. Established 1992 Church View Funeral Directors The Independent Family Funeral Service 46 Buckingham Street, Aylesbury HP20 2LL Telephone: 01296 398553 161 Broad Street, Chesham HP5 3EF Telephone: 01494 776777 Church Yard, Tring HP23 5AE Telephone: 01442 825472 www.churchviewfuneral.co.uk