More to Death Edition3 2014 | Page 55

ue in some places, free ‘training days’ for care home staff by the funeral director, delivery of flowers to the home after funerals have taken place and the offer of voluntary work running social events at the home are all familiar ways in which funeral directors offer their friendly support. Either way, the favoured funeral director collects the bodies of the residents who die in the home and, almost invariably, ends up carrying out the funeral - and invoicing the family accordingly. Not for nothing does the phrase ‘Habeas Corpus’ (Latin for ‘you have the body’) exist! Another myth is that a hearse has to be used to transport a coffin. It has become the accepted vehicle in which a body is conveyed to the final place of rest, frequently at a cost of around £400 for a half hour journey or less - but it is not compulsory, nor in some cases, desirable. Any suitable alternative vehicle can be used, including your own private car or that of a neighbour or friend. How about the belief that you have to have a coffin? Totally untrue, the only legal stipulation is that ‘It is an offence to expose a dead body near a public highway as this would outrage public decency’. Basically, a body should be covered in public - but the method of doing so is entirely up to the individual responsible for the disposal of the body. The Natural Death Centre has always championed the rights of the bereaved to exercise autonomy when it comes to making arrangements for funerals, and we will continue to do so for as long as the need is there. With the reluctance of government to create legislation to make obvious the legal rights of the bereaved, and impose penalties on those breaching those rights, unfortunately we expect to be manning the NDC Helpline for a long time yet. If you have any questions concerning a death or a funeral, call us for advice on 01962 712690, or e-mail [email protected] BUY HERE buy here