insideSUSSEX Magazine Issue 21 - November 2016 | Page 108

CHARITY ‘TIS THE SEASON FOR GIVING cont. big day? Making space for the new items you know are coming helps you keep a clear head and will save you money on that dreaded IKEA trip. But it will also help those in need if you take the old toys and unopened gifts from last year to your local charity. Either drop them off at a shop or take them to a centre where they can be wrapped and given out to those less fortunate. That cuddly bear that hasn’t even been looked at let alone played with since it arrived in your home might be the only present a less fortunate child receives this year. It’s not just about toys either – we’ve all got too many clothes, and some of them having been languishing in our wardrobes and drawers for months or even years without seeing the light of day. For a homeless person the gift of a new suit or warm jumper could make all the difference. Coats are particularly needed. There are lots of clothes banks dotted around high streets, or again you could take your unwanted outfits directly to a charity shop. But what if, instead of buying things that are not going to get eaten (we throw away around £64 million worth of food as a nation over the festive period), wouldn’t it be better to donate items to a food bank instead? You could do your big Christmas shop and buy a few extra bits and bobs (not just food, but sanitary products and nappies are always needed too) which can go straight to charity. Alternatively, don’t buy any extra than usual, but donate anyway. Are you really going to eat all of those mince pies? What about the selection box of chocolates that was on offer so you bought two? If you can, let someone else enjoy these treats. Give Blood And don’t forget, food banks need donations all year round, so if, once all the excitement is out of the way, you find yourself with plenty of leftover food that just isn’t going to get eaten, don’t throw it out – take it to a food bank. Check www.thetrusselltrust.org.uk to find your nearest one. Pay It Forward Help The Animals Buy A Little Extra The big Christmas food shop… love it or loathe it, it’s a necessity, particularly if you are hosting on the big day. Christmas is a time to indulge, to eat a little (or a lot!) more than you would normally, and generally be a bit naughty. And the money we spend on these feasts is astronomical. We might moan about it, but by the time we get home with enough food to see us through the week of Christmas, we can finally feel as though things are going to plan. Sadly, animal shelters become more full than ever at Christmastime. Some people choose to give away their older pets in anticipation of getting a new one, and others give away news ones that they hadn’t asked for and didn’t want and yet were given them anyway. Any extra pet food that you have – particularly for dogs and cats, although fish food and birdseed are also needed – will always be welcome at your local animal shelter. Unwanted pet toys can also be given. Your time will also be gladly received as shelters will be so busy. Come in to play with the animals, take the dogs for walks, clear out the kennels and cages and generally be on hand when required. 108 Giving blood won’t cost you anything, and it won’t harm you in any way. And although a lot of people sign up to give blood at Christmas, estimates say that around one in five of them simply don’t turn up to their appointment. Hospitals are always in need of blood, and taking the time to give yours could literally save a life this festive season. It’s easy to sign up (you can do it online at www.blood.co.uk) and, as long as you meet the requirements, you can start giving straight away. The idea behind paying it forward is something that can – and should – be remembered throughout the year, but at Christmas it is the perfect time to begin giving on a daily basis. Paying it forward means doing something good for someone else so that they will, ideally, do something nice for someone else. In this way, a chain of good deeds can grow hugely – and make quite the difference. You could start simply by paying for someone’s food in a restaurant or buying someone coffee in the morning. Put a smile on their face and you’ve changed their outlook for the entire day. It’s a lovely thing to do. You don’t even have to spend any money to do this. Pay a stranger a compliment and you could have started a chain of positive events that ends up helping someone you have never and will never meet. It’s a beautiful thought indeed.