insideKENT Magazine Issue 25 - April 2014 | Page 95

• Get a copy of your latest bank statement and do a quick analysis. Mark each item either ‘A’ ‘B’ or ‘C’. ‘A’s’ are essential items such as your mortgage, gas bill and water rates. ‘B’ items are things like mobile phone bills, Sky TV and services which are a necessity, but not crucial. And finally, ‘C’ items are luxuries buys such as DVDs, shoes and takeaways – basically things that are nice to have. By doing this, you will gain a clearer picture of where your money is going each month. • Look at the ‘C’ items on your statement analysis; what are you wasting money on? Write a list of three ways you can cut back this week. • Now look at your ‘A’ and ‘B’ items and start looking into where savings can be made; ensure you research your service providers to make sure you’re getting the best deal on the market. • Early morning is the best time for both the body and spirit as you are rested and fresh, and the world around you is at its calmest. Set your alarm half an hour earlier and use this time to meditate, do some gentle exercise, or to simply sit and have your morning cup of tea. You'll be amazed at what a difference it makes to your day. • Ensure you have at least two early nights each week. Fill your sleep tank and enjoy the positive effect it has on your energy levels. • Have one night a week where you don’t cook. Instead, opt for a take away or just pull something out of the freezer that you can pop in the oven. Create your vision Re-launch your career In order to achieve the things you want in life, you need to set specific and measurable goals. Good goals keep us motivated, happy, and ultimately moving forward. What is your vision for the year ahead? Dust the cobwebs from your mind • Decide on three areas of your life where improvement is most needed, whether it’s your finances, relationship or career, and set yourself one goal within each area. • Ensure you write these goals down and put them somewhere you can see them every day. • Take just five action steps every week in order to move towards each of your goals. Fine-tune your routine Listen out for your own negative self-talk, which I call your 'Inner Critic'. Negative thoughts and beliefs can be very dangerous for your own personal growth, as they tend to keep you trapped in your comfort zone. • Challenge your negative thoughts and beliefs. Are they really true, and if so what evidence is there? I can guarantee that you are your harshest critic. • Make a commitment to start listening out for the gentle little voice inside – what I call your 'Inner Guide'. Your 'Inner Guide' has total belief in you and once you start actively and regularly listening, your life will change dramatically. • Ask yourself ‘what positive messages do I need to hear throughout my day?’ and make these your daily mantras in order to move forward. We all lead hectic lives and try to cram as much in as possible, but how often do we stop for a second and think about our daily schedule? What’s working for you and what’s not? Think about how can you alter your daily routine to allow for a bit more ‘me time’. As a life coach, much of my work is based around helping people to find a more fulfilling career that meets their individual passions and values. We spend most of our week working, so it’s imperative that we enjoy our job. Are you fulfilling your potential? • Do a mind dump of all your likes and dislikes, passions and values, talents and abilities, and then take an objective look at your current job. How many of the boxes does it actually tick? • If you’re looking for a career change, start listing all of your ideas on a blank piece of paper – both pie-in-the-sky and logical options. Then, start researching each idea in turn, looking at training, funding and your experience. Most importantly, make contact with people who are already in that line of work and pick their brains. • If you’re generally happy, but would like to make a few small tweaks, take some time to list five things that would make your working week more enjoyable – from working from home once a week, to just getting out of the office at lunchtime. Most importantly, take action! Louise Presley-Turner is a lifestyle expert, business mentor and author of Finding a Future That Fits (Hay House). Louise helps women all around the globe to discover their life’s purpose, build their business and create an awesome life. Louise’s unique style of coaching has produced some amazing results, helping people to define their goals and turn their lives around with amazing success. Get your free life evaluator and planner now at www.thegameoflife.co.uk. 95