rs
Mental Health Mattewith
Chrissy B
4 things women do which stress their men out
Did you know that one in eight men are diagnosed with a common
mental illness such as anxiety, depression, panic disorder or
obsessive compulsive disorder? Having a stressful relationship can
contribute to these issues, so here are a few things to avoid:
1.Bringing up the past
Arguments happen and you will not always see eye
to eye on matters. But once an argument is resolved,
don’t bring the issue up again, and don’t rub his face
in it. It’s petty and catty – move on.
2. Giving the silent treatment
This creates a horrible atmosphere and men become
genuinely upset if you are distant and cold. Some
women continue the silent treatment for days, often
trying to force an apology.
Research conducted by the Wake Forest University
found that men are more vulnerable than women to a
relationship’s ups and downs. Researchers believe this is
because women will go to friends to express themselves
but for men, their partner is whom they tend to express
themselves to, so if they are not talking, men have no one.
3. Being too needy or too cool
We all know being too needy is a turn off. I was
the queen of neediness in the past. It’s annoying,
suffocating and demeaning. But the opposite can
also be damaging – playing it too cool. If you play
games just to see if your partner will chase you and
give you more attention, it could backfire. He could
even think you’re not interested in him anymore.
However, investing in yourself for the right reasons
will make you more attractive to your partner.
4. Wanting your own way
Don’t expect your partner to always do what you want
to do. And if you do what he wants, do it with a smile
instead of a long face.
If you need to talk, I’m here for you.
Email me on [email protected].
Also remember, for plenty of practical advice
to be a happier you, tune in to my show on
MY CHANNEL SKY 203 (Sky guide) every
Monday, Wednesday and Friday at 10pm and also
on YouTube: ‘Chrissy B Show’.
Write your inner self goal and bring it with you to your local UCKG.
13