Green Child Magazine Winter 2015 | Page 62

Beyond Morning Sickness the healthy, happy homes we imagine for our loved ones. That was certainly my plan. I looked forward to the care of a midwife and a planned home birth, imagining what it would be like to eat a healthy, balanced diet to grow my baby. Already a physically active person, I was certain I would maintain my activity level and even learn new ways for me to engage my whole mind and body not only for my well being but for my children-to-be. In my mind, there was no doubt that I would have a drug-free pregnancy and birth. Everything would go according to the books, I would be mindful of everything I put in my body and eliminate any unnecessary risk. A headache would be something I could suffer through before risking exposing my baby to some pharmaceuticals that 20 years from then would turn out to have caused her some kind of brain damage or given her cancer. I would do everything natural and avoid putting any pharmaceuticals into my body as I grew my babies. It was a good plan. But it couldn’t be my reality. All the ginger, crackers, small frequent meals, essential oils, slippery elm, papaya enzymes, wild yam root, acupuncture, chiropractic, and every other sage advice that helps ease morning sickness failed me. My midwives, obstetricians, naturopath, herbalist, friends, and my husband looked into and tried everything to help me. 62 Over the course of 16 years and 6 children, yes, I was crazy enough to do this 6 times, I have tried every remedy, every herb, every cleanse between pregnancies, every gut healing diets (gluten-free, GAPS, you name it), had every test (no, I have not tested positive for h.pylori the three times I’ve been tested), thyroid levels, meditation, therapy, and more, without relief from HG. Some of my friends on the support boards for moms with HG found relief with these protocols. Most of us had to go for those big, scary, pharmaceuticals though. My personal drug protocol cocktail doses me with more medication in a single day of my pregnancy than I would take in a year of not being pregnant. Recently the Duchess of Cambridge, Kate Middleton, has brought attention and awareness to hyperemesis gravidarum through her two pregnancies though even with official announcements from the royal family and her medical providers, much of the media continued to call it severe morning sickness. An understandable mistake to a degree, however, HG isn’t just bad morning sickness with a little bit of nausea and vomiting. It isn’t comforting to a mother that it is a sign of her pregnancy sticking due to strong hormones, HG has proven fatal for some women and has ended many very wanted pregnancies. There is nothing comforting about feeling your body die and fear for your growing baby. If you’re wondering what the difference is and if you could possibly be suffering from something more than morning sickness on a kind of ego trip, here are some indicators of hyperemesis gravidarum as put forth by the Help HER (Hyperemesis Education and Research) Foundation: HG often recurs and follows similar patterns in future pregnancies, though severity may vary each time. • Anemia • Body odor (from rapid fat loss & ketosis) • • • • Confusion Decreased urination Dehydration Dry, furry tongue