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we are still very much in love and best friends after all these years. We serve a good, good Father. There’s no shortage of books on marriage in the Christian market. What makes this book different? Our research reinforces a sad but important truth: Christian marriages are not bulletproof. We are not immune to the potential of failure. And the number of dissatisfied couples seems to be on the rise. Marriage is a complex relationship, and there are many approaches to protect, correct or resurrect it from the potential ravages of conflict. Many provide insight from personal experiences, while just as many identify the scriptural foundation for success. We combined those methods with practical techniques. This gives couples a path, a plan and the promise of God’s word to achieve the marriage they long for: one aligned with God’s word that honors Him and produces life in their union. ognize it does not have to be a deal breaker. But if there is an unwillingness on one or both to learn how to deal constructively with conflict, leaning on God and His word as the blueprint for their life, that’s a red flag. Deb DeArmond is a highly-experienced and sought-after executive coach, trainer, and facilitator, having worked in marketplace ministry with audiences at all levels across a broad spectrum of industries and organizations. She is an expert in the fields of Do you recommend that leadership, communication, and engaged couples read this relationship and conflict resolubook, or is the focus more for tion. Deborah owns DeArmond married couples? and Associates, dedicated to We believe that couples who helping others build successful learn to use conflict in a healthy solutions to the challenges they way before marriage have a huge are facing. Deb is the co-founder advantage. But at any stage of of MyPurposeNow.org, a webmarriage, the book can serve site for Christian women 50+. as a biblically-based approach, She is a staff writer for the online combined with practical tools magazine, Destiny in Bloom and and ready-to-apply concepts. her writing is regularly featured Several of the reviews reflect the at Living Better at 50+, also an sentiment, “I wish I had read this online magazine. She has been book years ago. It could have published in WHOA Magazine saved my marriage.” and Dallas Family Magazine. So whether couples are kneedeep in the pain of conflict or want to strengthen their relationship and enjoy greater connection and authentic intimacy, this book can support them. Ron DeArmond has followed Christ since the age of 12 and has studied the Bible for 45+ years. He has previously served in ministry positions with Christian Men’s Network, Faithful Men Ministry, and has minisObviously this is a book about If you could share one piece tered internationally, teaching conflict in marriage. How big of advice with a couple who is men’s curriculum. Ron is curof a part does dealing with struggling with conflict in their rently the director of men’s minconflict play in dating/court- marriage, what would that be? istry at Catch the Fire/DFW. Ron ship? Does/should the way a Christian marriages do have an and Deb have been together for person deal with conflict then enemy – but it’s not your spouse. more than 40 years and live in “make or break” the decision Learning to fight – together—for Euless, Texas. to get married? your marriage is a key to buildWhile constant bickering during ing the relationship you envi- A special thanks to Ron & Deb courtship is a concern, it’s not sioned on the day you said “I DeArmond for taking the time to safe to assume that a lack of con- do.” Time doesn’t heal. Action interview with us, and to Audra flict while dating indicates all will is required. You can make that Jennings for coordinating the be well once married. It is a time decision today! interview! for the couple to learn how to To Purchase, communicate, to pray for God’s For more information, visit www. direction, and seek mentoring or debdearmond.com or follow Deb counseling if needed. Knowing on Facebook (AuthorDebDeArthat all couples will have con- mond) or Twitter (@DebDeArPlease Click Here flict should help the couple rec- mond). Don’t Go to Bed Angry