We think we know what ’ s right for us , we think we know what ’ s best , but we truly need God ’ s direction and guidance to make the absolute best decision . This can only come with a real relationship with God . Once you give it to God in prayer , spend time in His word and wait for His
guidance . He will reveal His will to you and you will know what choice you need to make .
If you are to marry this person you have chosen with your heart , God will cause everything to fall into place . He will do it , because you are in His will . On the other hand , if it is not the Lord ’ s will that you marry this person , He will comfort your heart and give you the strength to accept His will . Either way , it is better to know before the marriage takes place , whether or not you are resting in the safest place – the will of God .