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6. Tip Well Chances are, your server is going to be picking tiny bits of rejected food off the floor under your table. Though you can hope she’s not combing mashed potatoes from her hair or placating the couple next to you, who didn’t sign up for a meal accompanied by 354 renditions of Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, it’s always a good idea to thank her for her patience with a generous tip. 7. Be Flexible A very wise friend of mine gave the best advice about eating out with kids. She said, “Go when you can and leave when you must.” The bottom line is that eating out together should be an enjoyable activity for the whole family. Any parent knows that when the kids are happy, the parents are happy - and the reverse is even more poignantly true. Be spontaneous and take advantage of the times when you think your kid would do well in a restaurant - if her mood and the timing permits, go for it! And, on the other hand, if your attempt to sit through five courses of tapas isn’t working out for everyone in your crew, pack up and leave. Even finishing your meal, picnic-style, at home, is pretty fun, and there are still no dirty dishes in the sink. Keeping the experience positive for everyone involved will make the whole issue of eating out with your kids less anxiety-provoking and may, hopefully, be truly enjoyable. Jessie Harrold, lives in Halifax, Nova Scotia and is the author of the blog PurpleHouseCafe.com WWW.EATINEATOUT.CA 31