Dialogue Volume 10 Issue 2 2014 | Page 5

MESSAGE FROM THE PRESIDENT Dear Colleagues “The difference between the right word and the almost right word is the difference between lightning and the lightning bug.” – Mark Twain W hen I became President, one of the goals I advanced was to reduce complaints to a negligible number. I want this not only because it would allow us to focus more quickly on serious complaints, not only because it would ease the stress on the physician, but because it would indicate we were practising better medicine, more professionally.  Marc Gabel, MD College President As anyone who has sat on the College’s Inquiries, Complaints and Reports Committee can tell you, a patient complaint will often have its roots in a communication issue – whether it’s the absence of communications, misinterpreted communications, or perhaps communications done in a poor fashion. Over the years, it has become increasingly clear to me that the ability to communicate well is not just a good thing, it is an essential thing. Indeed, it is an integrated part of the medical task.  That is also the opinion of Dr. Dawn Martin who offers individualized communication coaching for physicians. These physicians have either been identified by their hospitals, this College or the CMPA as needing assistance in improving their communications, or have sought out Dr. Martin after coming to recognize this need on their own. In an interview on page 29 of this issue, Dr. Martin makes the point that poor communications is often perception, not intent. Yes, a patient may have raised concerns about a doctor being insensitive, or rude. However, it was never the doctor’s intention to come across that way. As Dr. Martin says, she has never met a physician who calls himself or herself uncaring, or who sets out to communicate poorly.  Even if the problem is part of a pattern, it’s difficult to be objective about one’s own strengths, weaknesses and biases. We can all benefit from feedback about our blind spots. I know I certainly can. That is why I find meaning whenever a comment is made to me about something I said. Whether it is from a colleague, friend, partner or patient, I listen carefully to what they say. In providing this kind of feedback (which can be difficult and awkward to do), they are doing an extraordinary kindness. Certainly, receiving criticism is never pleasant, but it is important to reflect on the comments and consider how you have been perceived. And remember, communications goes beyond content. Your facial expression, your tone, your body language are possibly more important than your words. They all send a powerful message to the receiver. DIALOGUE • Issue 2, 2014 5