Badassery Magazine Issue 4 September | Page 10

The saying isn’t ‘fake it so you’ll make it’ - in other words, faking it isn’t the method for achieving success. You’re not pretending to be something that you’re not. The saying is simply a confidence-building tool that you use to help keep your goals in sight. You are who you are, and you have it in you to be a successful version of yourself - but, you might need a little positive visualization to keep your eye on the prize. And, that is why the ‘fake it til you make it’ strategy is so useful. Starting and running a business can be intimidating and, if you’re a mompreneur, you’ve got a lot of different roles to play each day that take your focus from your business. It’s easy to get off track and lose the drive that is necessary for pushing past all of the obstacles that come up. Using a ‘fake it ‘til you make it’ confidence strategy helps you to embody the persona necessary to stay connected to your motivation and focus. And, not just in theory - it’s actually backed by science. 3 (SCIENCE-BACKED) WAYS TO FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT: SMILE Even when you are completely pissed off and overwhelmed … just smile. It has been scientifically proven by several published studies that smiling while working on tasks that are stressful will keep your heart rate lowered and help to improve focus and mood. Think about it. Could you really scream and yell about something that is irritating the shit out of you … while smiling? I’m a mom - I know this can’t be done.