royally annoys the fuck out of
me when I have clients come to
me and ask me if I’m going to
tear them down to build them
back up. NO! I’m going to help
you dust some shit off, reinforce
the cracks in your foundation,
and keep building! THAT is
what a good coach does!
Want the recipe on how to not be
a dickbag of an empowerment
coach? Here it is:
EMPOWERMENT WITHOUT
ABUSE RECIPE
Makes: endless servings
3 c. Listening to clients
4 c. Empowerment
1 ½ c. Reading between the lines
2/3 c. Offering Sage Advice
3 tbsp. of Humor
4-6 Nuggets of Truth, whipped
until peaked
Cinnamon to taste
Combine all ingredients in large
bowl and serve to self on the
regular! Serve to your clients as
needed. Any time you feel that
the recipe is falling flat and isn’t
as empowering as it should be,
tweak and make again. It’s that
fucken easy! And add cinnamon
because who doesn’t love cinna-
mon?! Seriously!
It really is not that hard to ac-
tually empower your clients to
WANT to change their lives. If
you know nothing else of any-
thing, know this: A person will
only change if they see the need
and have the unshakable want to
change. How do you think I quit
smoking? Same difference.
LET THIS HIT YA LIKE A BAG
OF BRICKS
Ya know. The same bricks that
you use to beat your clients with.
Those ones. I’m not saying that
as an empowerment coach or
the like that you need to blow
smoke up your clients’ asses.
Don’t do that. What I’m saying
is that there is a line that gets
crossed when you forget that
you’re working with hearts and
souls; things that do need to be
handled with care because most
likely someone ripped em out
and shit all over them right after
they put em through a blender.
If a person is coming to you be-
cause they want help in changing
their life around and need the
accountability and encourage-
ment of you, someone who seem-
ingly has their shit together, then
what makes you think it’s okay
to use that desperation against
them?! Hint: IT’S NOT!
You don’t have to be a dick to
help other people. Further-
more….your insecurity and own
emotional abuse is showing.
Might want to work with an
empowerment coach for that…
one who won’t treat you as poorly
as you treat your own clients!
Besides, I know that you are ca-
pable of so much more and that
once you work through your own
shit, you’ll have so much success
that you’ll be thankful that you
had someone call you on your
shit in a loving and caring way.
About the Author
I'm the ballsy, refreshingly kickass mentor who guides you from
victim-hood to being empowered as fuck! I mix my rockstar
attitude with safety, trust, and compassion to get your world
changed brighter! My intense passion for justice and changing
the world makes me the only No Bullshit Best Friend you'll
ever need! When I’m not changing the world, one life at a time,
I’m hanging out with my husband and two boys, reading some
mommy porn, or binge watching random shows on Netflix. I’m
addicted to bath bombs and take time out every day for bombs
and booze. Ya know what they say...when mama ain’t happy,
no one is. I make sure I do things that make me happy.
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