I KNEW very early in life that I was different. When my friends and I used to play cowboys and Indians,
I loved knowing I could might be tied up. I also jumped
at the chance to tighten rope around wrists and feet after capturing myself a cowboy.
Rope fascinated me – the
different types of knots you
can make, how many knots
for the specific length of
the rope, etc... Of course I
was too young to realise
that I wasn’t alone in my
love for rope and I was
obviously too young to
know that it had a
name – Shibari.
In high school,
bondage
became sexual
to me. I played
with my high
school sweet-
heart when we
visited each
other during
holidays. I
would use his
school tie to
restrain him and
then tease him
with a feather until
his excitement
became unbearable
and he would cum.
It made me feel in
charge.
Then there were
times when I would
be the one tied
down – blindfolded
and at his mercy.
Not knowing what
would happen next
was exciting and
led to pure ecstasy.
It was in my
twenties that I could finally put a name to my
“weirdness”.
I was completely in love with rope and needed to know more. I read up about fetishes and discovered that I had more than just rope and bondage as
fetishes. It intrigued me and pushed me to learn more. Rope was, to me, an artform.
It was beautiful and I wanted to do what I had seen other people do in photos.
YouTube and Google became my tutors,
and I took what I saw others did and
made it my own.
Getting subjects to practise on was the
most difficult part, but I was so desperate to
get better at rope art that I practised on
my mom, grandmother (who was 80 at the
time) and anyone else who felt comfortable
enough. To get people ‘”comfortable enough”
I often had to make up a story – “it’s for a project,
a Halloween costume a friend asked me to help
with…” No mention of the fact that while it may not
be sexual now, I'd definitely be use it for such purposes
later!
Having to explain why I do it and how it is is done happens daily.
I know it will probably be part of me till the day I die. I won’t be able
to go vanilla again and I realise the ‘nillas won’t easily understand why
I like tying people up. I might be a freak to some, but I am comfortable in
my freakish mind. I don’t see 10 metres of rope as just rope. I see art. When
I go to a hardware shop or stationary shop my mind is filled with the possibilities.
ROPE is my passion.
I would like to share this quote from one of my fellow kinkster:
“I believe rope is a creative extension of myself. It goes beyond just putting rope onto a person. There is a transfer of energy . . . spirituality through the ropes. By tying someone I am giving them a piece of myself that stays with them. This way the rope never really comes off the artwork I bind them in, it never really unravels. They will remember it always.” - Solatus
I agree 100%.
finally put a name to my
“weirdness”.
I was completely in love with rope and needed to know more.
I read up about fetishes and discovered that I had more than just rope and bondage as
fetishes. It intrigued me and pushed me to learn more.
Rope was, to me, an artform. It was beautiful and I wanted to do what I had seen other people do in photos.
YouTube and Google became my tutors, and I took what I saw others did and made it my own.
Getting subjects to practise on was the most difficult part, but I was so desperate to get better at rope art that I practised on my mom,
grandmother (who was 80 at the time) and anyone
else who felt com-
fortable e
Photonough.
To get people
"comfortable
enough” I often
had to make
up a story –
“it’s for a project,
a Halloween
costume a friend
asked me to help
with . . .”
No mention of the fact
that while it may not sexual now I would definitely use it
for such purposes later!
Having to explain why I do
it and how it is is done happens daily.
I know it will probably be part of me till the day I die. I won’t be able to go vanilla again and I realise the ‘nillas won’t easily understand why
I like tying people up. I might be a freak to some, but I am comfortable in my freakish
“I believe rope is a creative extension of myself. It goes beyond just putting rope onto a person. There is a transfer of energy . . . spirituality through the ropes. By tying someone I am giving them a piece of myself that stays with them. This way the rope never really comes off the artwork I bind them in, it never really unravels. They will remember it always.” - Solatus
I agree 100%.
mind.
I don’t see 10 metres of rope as just rope. I see art.
When I go to a hardware shop or stationary shop my mind is filled with the possibilities.
ROPE is my passion.
I would like to share this quote from one of my fellow kinkster and I agree 100%
as just rope. I see art.
When I go to a hardware shop or stationary shop my mind is filled with the possibilities.
ROPE is my passion.
I would like to share this quote from one of my fellow kinkster and I agree 100%
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