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SPECIAL PARENT adopting children with special needs R esearching adoptions leads to a realization – all adoptive children, in their own way, have special needs. There are, of course, the children whose needs are immediately recognizable – those who have physical disabilities such as Down’s syndrome, those with medically correct- 26 NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2016 | (201) FAMILY able conditions like a cleft palate, or those adopted out of foster care who may have experienced trauma and loss, resulting in emotional and behavioral issues. Then, there are others with needs that may not be readily apparent. While some prospective parents consciously make a choice to adopt a child who would not otherwise be adopted, many others eventually come to accept that, practically speaking, if they want to adopt a child, they may need to expand their parameters to include adopting one that comes with special needs. Robin Fleischner, an attorney specializing in adoption, who practices in both New York and New Jersey, usually works with prospective parents looking 201magazine.com ND3000/GETTY IMAGES/ISTOCKPHOTO WHAT PROSPECTIVE PARENTS SHOULD KNOW