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THE JASPERS HILLSDALE Rod Stewart is crooning over the speakers in the Pascack Valley gymnasium. Practice is mellow, like the music, for Jeff Jasper’s girls basketball team. Jasper, a North Jersey coaching legend if ever there is one, is guiding the girls through a basic catch-and-shoot drill. It’s late in the season and this is just a way to stay fresh. Then, the special guests come and the intensity level picks up. Jack and Charlie Jasper, ages 3-and-a-half and 2, respectively, arrive along with Indians assistant coach Justin Jasper. Jack and Charlie have small orange basketballs they heave at the basket or dribble imperfectly. Their blue and orange shoes squeak lightly on the polished floor. The boys know not to bother “Pops” while he’s conducting practice, but as soon as it ends, they all come together near the scorers’ table. Sometimes “Lolo,” the boys’ grandmother, Lois, comes to watch and have fun. “The other day I think they had the whole team playing with blocks,” Justin says with a smile. Three generations of Jaspers in one gym. Jeff – yes, he’s “Pops” – calls out to a friend, “This is like the circle of life.” Jeff Jasper has spent his life teaching back cuts, ball screens and rebounding. But this season, with Justin, one of his three sons, serving as an assistant for the first time with the Indians, and see- ing his grandkids frolic underfoot has given him a lesson on what matters. “It puts everything in total perspective for me,” Jeff says. “It is basketball, which is my passion certainly, but when these two little munchkins come in here, just knowing they are there gives me such a comfort level that is really sweet.” Justin, one of three children to Je ff and Lois, had been an assistant coach at Pascack Hills for four seasons and is a teacher in Montvale. When an opening developed at Pascack Valley, Jeff approached him about coming on board. “It didn’t seem real, but you know, after some negotiations…” Justin says smiling again, “it was really a no-brainer to come out and be a part of this.” It became a three-for-one deal, because what grandparent is going to turn away a grandkid? Like, ever. Jeff is quick to note Justin’s contributions to the Indians season with his insights and knowledge. He also seems to truly enjoy having his son be able to relate to him on a whole new level. Jack and Charlie just make it that much more fun for every- one. “The circle goes on,” Jeff says. “He and [son] Geremy were always here a lot, and Lois was my first assistant coach. That’s why this whole thing is so funny. My kids were raised in the back gym on big wheels and chocolate donuts, now we’re still doing what we’re doing, my kids [first] and now my grandkids. It’s so beautiful.” The natural question is, will Jack and Charlie play basketball? Jeff laughs and says they can be whatever they want. Justin says Jack’s going to be a dancer. But it is clear, they are learning the game. “We have a little Nerf hoop at home and after the first couple of practices Jack came to me and said, ‘I want to do drills,’” Justin says. “I had to take out a video. He’s learning a lot about the game, and Charlie too, just being around here.” – DARREN COOPER 201magazine.com “MY KIDS WERE RAISED IN THE BACK GYM ON BIG WHEELS AND CHOCOLATE DONUTS, NOW WE’RE STILL DOING WHAT WE’RE DOING, MY KIDS [FIRST] AND NOW MY GRANDKIDS. IT’S SO BEAUTIFUL.” Jeff Jaspers father, grandfather and Pascack Valley basketball coach NEXT UP (Top) Jeff Jasper holds one of his grandsons as his son, Justin, holds his other one. (Above) Justin joined his dad on the sideline as an assistant coach four years ago, and sometimes brings his little guys along to practices. (201) FAMILY | APRIL/MAY 2017 > 31