She Magazine NOVEMBER 2015 | Page 37

E ven when we fall up the stairs we are making forward progress. Our self-esteem may take a minor hit, but at least we are a few treads further up the staircase from the bottom where we started. Falling up, then, is a rather positive notion if we examine it from a certain angle. Probably one of the best examples of this positive notion comes from author and illustrator Shel Silverstein in his now-classic children’s book, appropriately titled Falling Up. I used to think that only Dr. Seuss could offer adult advice clothed in silly children’s poems. Wrong. Mr. Silverstein nails it, too. Consider what he tells us in the following excerpt from Falling Up, and then read the beginning of Romans Chapter 7, also known as the “do-do verses”. Wildly different sources with basically the same message for all of us children! “All the Woulda-Coulda-Shouldas Layin’ In the Sun, Talkin’ ‘Bout the Things They Woulda-Coulda-Shoulda Done… But All Those Woulda-Coulda-Shouldas All Ran Away and Hid From One Little Did.” Mr. Silverstein offers many truths disguised in silly rhymes throughout his body of work, including The Giving Tree. Here’s another from Falling Up that speaks to us of Truth as boldly as I hope the Spirit speaks within me, if only I would listen: “There is a voice inside of you That whispers all day long, ‘I feel this is right for me, I know that this is wrong.’ No teacher, preacher, parent, friend Or wise man can decide What’s right for you — just listen to The voice that speaks inside.” And here’s one last Silverstein quote from Every Thing on It, in honor of adop- tive families. We often talk about the miracle of birth, and of course it is, but there is another kind of miracle that happens when children without a home find families to call their own. November is, after all, National Adoption Month: “Yes, I’m adopted. My folks were not blessed With me in the usual way. But they picked me, They chose me From all the rest, Which is lots more than most kids can say.” Whether falling back, down or up, here’s hoping that November brings abundant blessings and reasons for yearlong thankfulness. And may I please not succumb to the enticements of sugary confections and sticky procrastinations that send me in no good direction! SHEMAGAZINE.COM NOVEMBER 2015 37